I am not a therapist, or medical doctor, so please take my tips as only suggestions from a sex author and wife whose husband has an Erectile Dysfunction)

My husband has an erectile dysfunction problem and he takes sex drugs with herbs and even an injectable drug…all of which, alone and in combination give him great confidence about 90 % of the time. For those other 10 % times, we just smile and take a "whoops, it's not working" attitude of acceptance and "work-arounds" where he gives oral sex more and I go to my vibrator sooner. It's not a problem because we CHOSE to DECIDE that it is not a problem.

Although he has a serious ED problem, yet we have great sex. I want to share what he does and you might consider, in consultation with your urologist:

1. First, do not let a woman you deeply love think that you are not turned on by her: explain to her the feel truth of your erectile dysfunction (ED).
2. At the same time, investigate your ED situation with a urologist. In a word, take RESPONSIBILITY for having ED for working to overcome it.
3. Always be open, honest, and up-front with the woman you love. Invest time, money and effort in making your sexual capability one you are proud of, and one your woman is happy and fully satisfied with.
4. Ask your woman help you to keep the romance/passion flowing, just redirected away from your penis, at least for the moment.
5. Now, as to the drinking and partying, of course your penis isn't working. When you want sex, go easy on the booze.
6. When it happens (with new girl or old), respond to the situation calmly, positively, by acknowledging it with a "here-we-go-again" half-smile. It won't be a problem.
8. Definitely get prescription s for all 3 of the ED pills, Viagra, Levitre, and Cialis . They could “cure” you. If you have a “low normal” or “abnormally low” testosterone level, get a prescription for a daily testosterone patch. It could create “miracle” surprise, since what my husband calls “vitamin T” is so key to make sexual arousal
9. If you want a further boost, consider using a 3-drug injectable prescription cocktail. It hardly hurts, even if the image it brings to mind is offputting, and can even be sexy if you sometimes let her plunge the medicine into your member.
10. Try some ongoing twice-daily combination of these herbs/alternative treatments; my husband swears by them:
i. Korean red ginseng
ii. Marapuana
iii. YohimbeHorny Goat Weed
iv. Maca
v. Pycnogenol

Py Kim Conant is a sexpert, educator and the author of "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy and Keep Your Man." For more tips on sex and relationships and free chapters of the book, sign up for newsletter at http://www.AmericanGeishaHouse.com

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